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Top Ways to Get Your Ex Back - Tips for Getting Your Ex Back Easily...

Top Ways to Get Your Ex Back - Tips for Getting Your Ex Back Easily
Tigress Luv, The Breakup Guru

Going through a break up is a painful time. No matter how final you might think it is, there's always hope you can get your ex back, especially if you remember some simple tips.

Regardless of how your relationship break up happened, it's important to keep in mind that you both had feelings for each other once. While your ex might tell you those feelings are now gone, the truth is, it's often very easy to bring back the love.

Stop Calling

Have you constantly called him or sent him texts or emails since the breakup, trying to beg him to come back to you? If you have, you might be driving him even further away. If you're serious about getting your ex back, you need to stop contacting him at once. Give him some time and space to think about everything.

More importantly, give him some time to actually miss having you in his life. When he realizes that you're really gone, he may start missing you and begin calling you instead.

Independence

Men tend to view constant demands for their time and attention to be a little desperate. Desperation is never attractive. You may also seem too clingy or needy if you're constantly begging him to see you.

Men also love what they don't think they can have. This means if you're constantly harassing him to see you, call you or contact you, he knows he's got you. The thrill of the chase is gone.

In order to get your ex back and get your relationship back on track, you need to spend some time working on your own independence, away from him. Many men love to see women who are capable of taking control of their own lives. It means they don't have to feel so responsible for everything you're feeling all of the time. This takes the pressure of them and makes it much easier to just enjoy your company and relax in the relationship.

Hindsight

Think back to when you first met. What about you did your ex fall in love with? Women tend to think it was something about their figure or hair color. The truth is, most men will say they fell in love with a happy, fun-loving girl who made him feel great every time he saw her.

Now think about the last few dates you had. Were you the same happy, bubbly person he enjoyed spending time with so much? Or were you angry, jealous, upset, pleading, clingy or crying, trying to fix a relationship that looked like it was going downhill?

Spend some time finding that happy version of you that he loved so much. Get a makeover, or perhaps take up a hobby. Go out with the girls. Just find things that make you feel happy within yourself again. Your new confidence will begin to show and when it does, you'll be ready to meet with him to discuss possibilities.

Happiness

Far too many women believe that they can't be happy unless they get their ex back. The truth is, your ex isn't responsible for your level of happiness. You are. Sure, he might make you feel great when you're together, but your relationship is only one section of your entire life.

You have other friends, family, work, hobbies, interests, personal time - each of these things was in your life before your ex was and you managed just fine back then. Find that level of contentment within yourself again.

After all, if you can't be happy in your own company, how will anyone else enjoy it?

Rebuilding the Relationship

Once you have taken some time to let him miss you and spent a little time working on your own level of self-esteem and personal happiness levels, it's time to get your ex back.

Call him and suggest you meet up in a public place for a coffee or a chat. Make sure you smile when you see him and then make sure you talk about casual, light topics that have nothing to do with the relationship.

Of course it's fine to say that it's great to see him again, but don't allow the conversation to get any deeper than that. Tell him about your hobbies or interests or anything you've been doing to make you happy. Leave the chat without making definite plans to see each other again. Just be vague that it would be nice to catch up some time.

If you talk about things that make you happy, you have a stronger chance of getting your ex back. He'll notice that smile and that gleam in your eyes. He'll understand that he no longer has you where he wants you, and the temptation to chase you again will become stronger. He'll also notice that he's sitting right across from the same girl he fell in love with.

For more intense advice on getting him back, read these four special reports on winning him back and keeping him:

1) How to Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back! (Win Him Back!)
2) How To STOP (or UNDO) Your Breakup
3) How to Win Back His Attraction
4) The 45 Reasons Why He Dumped Your (Sorry) Ass!

Click here to read these four reports on winning him back !


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