What Leaves Men Cold?
It is not difficult for a woman to understand what turns a man on. Most
men are easily pleased, both in and out of bed. The difficulty, for
some women, is in recognizing the traits and behaviors that men find
off-putting. So what will make your man run away as quickly as his legs
can carry him?
Too many women fall into the trap of nagging their partner in order to
encourage what they see as positive changes. Women can nag about
anything and everything. It could be that you want your man to pick his
dirty clothes up off the floor and put them in the laundry basket.
Alternatively, you may dislike the fact that he tends to procrastinate.
Women nag about the perceived imperfections and faults that their
partner has. Constantly nagging a man is a big mistake. Self
improvement is always a personal choice. Nobody changes because another
person demands it of them. By constantly nagging your man, you are
basically telling him that you don't think he is good enough.
Stop Trying to Please Him
When a woman is with a man she really cares about, she wants to make
him happy. It is very important that you do not try too hard to make
your man pleased with you. If you are overly accommodating, you will
not pose a challenge, and men like to chase. Have your own plans, ideas
and opinions. Avoid being at his beck and call. Be a challenge by
giving the man in your life a little room to approach you. If a man
perceives you as being overly eager and willing to please, he will
think you are needy. Neediness is not an attractive trait in either
Watch Your Attitude
Would you be willing to date a male chauvinist pig? You probably
answered no to that question without giving it a second thought. Yet
many women in modern society are sexist towards men. They have an
officious and overbearing attitude. They make their derisive opinion of
men very apparent. You may think this is being a feminist, but it comes
over as prejudice against men. If your man thinks that you do not like
men very much, it won't make him feel good about being with you. He
will feel undervalued and disrespected. Do not be afraid to praise your
man, and show your appreciation for the good things he does. This is
not a sign of weakness, but an indication of confidence and strength.
Give and Take
While it is a mistake to be overly accommodating, you will also put
your man off if you are excessively self-centered. Relationships are
always about compromise, and we must be willing to give as much as we
take. The days when women were expected to do nothing but cook, clean
house and raise children are long gone, but that doesn't mean you
should focus solely on your career and do nothing at home. Men have
been conditioned to see women as home makers. Modern men may be willing
to compromise, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't take on your fair
share of household responsibilities. You will also need to make plenty
of time for your partner so that he feels loved and needed.
It is definitely a bad idea to nag at your man, yet that does not mean
that you should give him the silent treatment instead. Many women
become frosty and silent when something about their relationship with
their partner is bothering them. This cold attitude does nothing to fix
the issue, and it drives men crazy. If something is bothering you,
speak up. Talk things through without yelling, nagging or getting
upset. Once you have said what you needed to say, give him some space
so that he can think about it. Try to communicate with your man just as
you would a good friend. That way you will find it easier to find a
solution to any problems you may have.
Men are definitely visual creatures. In other words, men get turned on
by what they see. Hence a woman who does not take care of her
appearance is off-putting to a man. You may be tempted to let certain
things slide because you are married or in a long-term relationship
with a man. This is not a good idea. Always make the effort to look
your best. Dress well, stay in shape, wear makeup and visit the beauty
salon. It is also a good idea to make sure that you always smell clean
and fresh. Confident women who take the time to look and smell good are
always more attractive to men.
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