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....but when someone decides to leave you intentionally, there is no
closure. There is only immense feelings of rejection and loss of esteem
and hope. They made the willful decision to stop loving you and they
made the willful decision to leave you. But society doesn't allow us to
grieve when our relationships fail and we break up; we are told to just
'get over it' and move on.
this means is that we aren't allowed to constructively work through our
pain. We can't build shrines, we can't have closure rituals, and we,
basically, are not even allowed to have good memories or else we are
chastised by well-meaning friends and family.
Oftentimes we are told our lost loved one was a jerk, an asshole, an
idiot, or even a loser. But with death we are told our lost loved ones
were 'wonderful' people.
Although losing someone through death
is never welcomed, we do have, at least, the benefit of knowing that
the person we lost loved us and didn't abandon us on purpose. We also
have friends and family who will allow us to still love that person and
not tell us to 'just get over it' or 'let go and move on'. And with
death we are allowed to hang up the deceased person's pictures, create
shrines and have a moving ritual which allows us to mourn and to say
good-bye - all while still allowing us to hold that person precious to
But we don't have all those benefits
when breaking up with someone we love. We are just supposed to snap our
fingers and magically move on. We are just supposed to magically 'fall
out of love'.
it's just not that easy; not that black-and-white. Breaking up is one
of the worst, if not THEE worst, experiences you will ever go
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most people's life: The loss of love.
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