to Get Your Ex Back After a Breach of Trust
Tigress Luv, The Breakup Guru
do you get your ex boyfriend back after a breach of trust? How do you
persuade him that it's worth trying to recreate your connection? This
is a difficult task, but not an impossible one.
of all, you need to understand that both parties are responsible for
the ending of the relationship. If you breached the trust in the
relationship in some way, you probably had your reasons for doing so.
However, you cannot excuse your actions by blaming or accusing. If, on
the other hand, he was the one who breached the trust, this means that
you will have to forgive him, no matter how difficult that might be.
key to moving forward and getting your ex back is to completely and
sincerely forgive both him and yourself. Release any negative emotions
you may be holding onto, such as anger, jealousy, hatred or contempt.
Make a commitment not to bring up past wrongs in the future. Otherwise,
the first time you have a small disagreement, a flood of ancient wrongs
will come pouring out once again. This pattern makes it impossible to
If you were the person who breached the trust in the relationship,
whether it was by cheating or in some other way, apologize from the
bottom of your heart, not merely as a way to manipulate your ex back
into your life. Make a decision to change your behavior and to avoid
repeating the same mistakes in the future.
expect that playing hard-to-get will work for you. If the trust in the
relationship was breached, you will need to show him that you are
serious about reconciliation. If he asks for space, give it to him, but
don't wait until it becomes awkward to reconnect. Initially, you may
have to take it slow. Work on building the friendship before worrying
about how far the relationship will go. It may be that your ex is not
sure if he can trust you. You will have to win back his trust before
you can win back your ex. Be patient and don't pressure your ex for
more than he is ready to give.
you should also keep in mind that many relationships do not recover
from a breach of trust, especially if the guilty party is not willing
to change from the inside out. If it turns out that you are unable to
win back your ex, you may simply have to accept this and move on. You
will have learned a valuable lesson about trust, and your next
relationship will be the better for it.
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3) How to Win Back His Attraction
4) The 45 Reasons Why He Dumped Your (Sorry) Ass!
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