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How to Get Your Ex Back After a Breach of Trust
Tigress Luv, The Breakup Guru

How do you get your ex boyfriend back after a breach of trust? How do you persuade him that it's worth trying to recreate your connection? This is a difficult task, but not an impossible one.

First of all, you need to understand that both parties are responsible for the ending of the relationship. If you breached the trust in the relationship in some way, you probably had your reasons for doing so. However, you cannot excuse your actions by blaming or accusing. If, on the other hand, he was the one who breached the trust, this means that you will have to forgive him, no matter how difficult that might be.

The key to moving forward and getting your ex back is to completely and sincerely forgive both him and yourself. Release any negative emotions you may be holding onto, such as anger, jealousy, hatred or contempt. Make a commitment not to bring up past wrongs in the future. Otherwise, the first time you have a small disagreement, a flood of ancient wrongs will come pouring out once again. This pattern makes it impossible to move forward.

If you were the person who breached the trust in the relationship, whether it was by cheating or in some other way, apologize from the bottom of your heart, not merely as a way to manipulate your ex back into your life. Make a decision to change your behavior and to avoid repeating the same mistakes in the future.

Don't expect that playing hard-to-get will work for you. If the trust in the relationship was breached, you will need to show him that you are serious about reconciliation. If he asks for space, give it to him, but don't wait until it becomes awkward to reconnect. Initially, you may have to take it slow. Work on building the friendship before worrying about how far the relationship will go. It may be that your ex is not sure if he can trust you. You will have to win back his trust before you can win back your ex. Be patient and don't pressure your ex for more than he is ready to give.

However, you should also keep in mind that many relationships do not recover from a breach of trust, especially if the guilty party is not willing to change from the inside out. If it turns out that you are unable to win back your ex, you may simply have to accept this and move on. You will have learned a valuable lesson about trust, and your next relationship will be the better for it.

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