Your Ex Wants You Back
How do you know if your ex really wants you back and wants to try again
at building a relationship with you? You may have broken up but is
there a chance you could recapture the magic? Has the flame of desire
The following signs will let you know that your ex does want to get
back with you. If you notice some of these signs, your ex wants to get
back with you and you have the chance to rekindle your romance.
They Make an Effort To See You!
If your ex starts to appear whenever you visit with mutual friends,
they still want to be around you. They may take the initiative to reach
out to you, either directly or through friends or relatives.
Sometimes, an ex will turn up in public places, at times they know you
are likely to be there. Your ex shows that they want to see you if they
start going to the gym at the same time as you, or meeting friends in
the bar when you are meeting other friends.
If they make an effort or take the initiative to see you or to ask you
out again, your ex definitely wants to rekindle the flames of passion.
They are saying they miss you and would want to be with you again. Sometimes, your ex may
appear very casual when they do see you, but this is usually because
they are nervous. To compensate for their own nervousness, they will
act 'ultra-cool' around you. In one way, this nervousness is a good
sign because people don't get nervous about something that is not
important to them.
They Keep Hanging Around
Another sign your ex wants you back is if they hang around longer than
they used to, when they do happen to see you. If you are in a group of
people, they may encourage their group to join with your group, so that
they can be around you longer.
They may also try a telephone call on a pretext but will encourage the
conversation to be longer than just about the original message they
needed to give you. This is a sure sign they want you back.
You may also receive some short emails a lot more frequently than you
used to. They may send you jokes but with a brief message. When your ex
does this, they are sending you signals of 'don't forget me!" and "I
want to be with you".
They Make Efforts to Improve Themselves
This sign is where your ex either tells you directly, or gets mutual
friends to "casually comment" on the changes they are making in their
lives. Importantly, if these changes are in areas where you were
fighting over, or wanting changes before you broke up, your ex is
trying to show you that they want you back.
By letting you know that they are working to make changes, especially
in the areas you wanted them to change, your ex is showing you that
things could be better if you wanted to get back together.
They Talk About The Break Up
Whenever you do meet or have a conversation, your ex somehow steers the
conversation into the break up. If your ex starts talking about being
sorry for disappointing you, you know you are on to a winner. They
definitely want you back!
They Start To Talk About The Future
The final sign that your ex wants you back is that whenever they allude
to the future, the implication is that you are a part of their future.
If this happens, your ex is trying to say that they see you in their
lives, and are contemplating getting back with you.
If you notice these signs from your ex, you now have a decision to
make. Do you start giving them the hint to stay right away or do you
give them some signs to say there is hope you two can get back
together? That is entirely up to you, but at least you can recognise
the signs that they want to get back together!
Click here to learn MORE on how to get back together
with your ex, even if they don't want to.
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