|BREAKUPS... WHY DOES THE
PAIN NEVER STOP?
Breaking up hurts, and it hurts more than most any other experience you
will ever have...sometimes even more than losing one to death. The
reason is that (for most breakups) the person who is initiating the
break up is doing so with the intent to end the relationship. When
someone dies they do not make the conscious and purposeful decision to
abandon you or leave you. They do not deliberately withdrawal their
love from you. When someone dies you can freely grieve and get
emotional support, comfort, understanding and sympathy; you can go
through rituals and get closure; and you are allowed to cry endlessly
and be told that it is okay to feel sad...
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